Thinking About Adoption? Here’s How to Get Started.

by | Sep 15, 2020 | Marriage and Family

For many, having children is one of life’s greatest joys. But the steps taken to reach that goal can look different for everyone. One way to expand your family is through adoption. The process of adopting may sound complicated, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. If you’re thinking about adoption, here’s how to get started.

1. Research

Adoption involves many elements. It’s important that you do your due diligence to understand the intricacies of the process. Take your time to explore the many ways that such a huge life change affects both adoptive parents and adoptees. Get familiar with the legal aspects of adoption, and the different options you’ll have. Lastly, research common ups and downs that come with the journey. The more informed you are, the more prepared you’ll be.   

2. Familiarize Yourself with the Steps

  1. Classes: Adoption agencies host orientation meetings to help potential parents learn all the ins-and-outs of adopting. In this meeting, you’ll have a chance to ask questions, collect resources, and hear real-life experiences from adoptive parents and adoptees.
  1. Home Study: Home studies are the state’s way of making sure that your home, family, and finances will be able to provide a safe and stable environment for foster and adopted children. A social worker will interview you, collect information and inspect your home in hopes of approving you for a placement.
  1. Foster Care/Adoption: After choosing an adoption type, you’ll begin the process of being matched with a child. Once you are matched and the child is placed, you’ll enter the post-placement period. During this time, your family’s transition will be monitored and reviewed. After, you’ll be cleared to finalize your adoption and secure permanent custody of your child. 

3. Understand the Costs

Depending on the type, adoption can range anywhere from a few thousand dollars up to $80,000. Adoptions that start with foster care can be paid through taxes, while private and international adoptions that include agency fees can be much more expensive. For more information on common adoption fees, click here.

Expanding your family can change your life for the better. Adoption is one avenue to help you do so. If you are considering adoption, use these three steps to get started. Remember to be thorough in your research and patient with the process. And last but not least, remain hopeful.